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Loss in the NICU

In a perfect world, every baby in the NICU would survive. Unfortunately, it is likely that during your NICU stay at least one family will experience a loss.

Coping with another family's loss
You may feel a range of emotions when you learn of another family's loss -- relief, anxiety, fear, sadness, guilt, jealousy, anger, or a combination of all of these. Remember that each baby is different. Try not to compare children or draw conclusions about your baby's outcome based on similarities or differences in weight, gestational age, length of time in the NICU, or medical condition.

Offer comfort to the bereaved family if you see them. Don't assume they would rather you avoid them because your baby is still alive and theirs is not. There is a good list of what to say (and what not to say) to families experiencing perinatal loss at this website: http://www.babylosskit.com/what.html.

Coping with loss in your own family

If you learn that your baby will not survive, you will find some resources for preparing for your baby's loss here on the PROM website: Preparing for a Perinatal Loss. In addition, the March of Dimes website has some information for how to prepare for the loss of a NICU baby.

Also, if you have not done so already, consider joining the PROM list so that we can support you through this difficult time.

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Article by Jodi Donnelly, Mommy to Anthony PROM @ 16 weeks, born in 2004 @ 31.5 weeks, 41 days in NICU and now thriving
and Kay Squires, september 2005
Special thanks to Inkan, Jen, Jody, Lise, Sonya, Valerie, Beth and the members of the PROM list

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 Preparing for a
 PROM Preemie
Preapring for a
  PROM Preemie
Advice
Meet your new
  health care team
Preparing for
  delivery

The first 48 hours

The first week:

 - Your baby

 - Taking care of
   Yourself

 - Your partner, older
   children, and others

Bonding with
  your baby

Loss in the NICU

Remember

Resources

Appendix A:
  Creating a Preemie
  Birth Plan

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