Around Christmas time often memories from your childhood comes to mind. One of those things were the “swapping-gifts-thing”. You brought a gift to a party, put it in the big pile of secret gifts mixed together. Later you got a gift that someone else brought. In theory very clever as you get a surprise. In reality that´s not always the case.  If you have hurtful memories from this kind of game, just remember that you´re not alone!